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    14 August 2007


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    I've noticed this too, in my travels around the US- many people think that once they know where you're from, they know most of your life story. I find that if you sit back and watch someone for a few minutes, maybe an hour, though, you can figure out at least their socioeconomic class and interests- that is, if you're familiar with the area's culture. Many northerners' ideas of the South is coloured by what they see on TV shows and the jokes they hear. Yet, many seem to be experts on Southern culture. Makes one think?

    My experience has of course been the same as a French expat in the States:
    - "Where are you from?"
    - "I'm French"
    - "Oh! I love Paris!
    The truth being: I wasn't born or raised in France but in a French island lost in the South Pacific. But who wants to confuse people the first time you meet them by telling the whole story. So "I'm French" is it.

    For the few years that I lived in LA, most of the people that I hung out with/saw on a somewhat regular basis had no idea what I did for work, although I saw some of them at the end of many work days. And when I left LA to go back to SF (for work purposes), one woman assumed, "Oh. Your chances for finding a husband are much better in San Francisco!" and asked nothing else.

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